Verbum to banter | compared with to brag (Australia)
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Friendly banter between two chatterboxes can be a great way to build a lighthearted, playful connection.
What makes good banter?
- Quick-witted responses – Keeping the conversation lively and spontaneous.
- Playful teasing – Light jokes without being mean.
- Matching energy – If both enjoy the back-and-forth, it flows naturally.
- Knowing when to pause – Sometimes, letting the other person “win” the exchange keeps it fun.
Example of friendly banter:
- Her: “You really are a chatterbox, aren’t you?”
- You: “Guilty! But hey, someone’s gotta keep the conversation interesting!”
If a woman enjoys banter, she’ll probably throw something back at you—then the fun begins!
Do you think she’ll keep up, or will you out-banter her?
Next time I will only talk to her dog and bite my tongue to impress her!
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Banter is generally more positive than bragging, because it’s about fun, playful conversation rather than self-promotion.
Comparison:
Playful, witty Friendly teasing, engaging conversation Fun, lighthearted, builds connections 😊 Bragging Proud, sometimes arrogant Showing off achievements Can be annoying or impressive, depending on delivery 😏
Why Banter Feels More Positive:
- It’s interactive—both people enjoy the exchange.
- It’s not about ego, but about humor and connection.
- It makes conversations more engaging and fun.
Bragging can be positive if done in a humble or humorous way, but banter is usually the safer and more enjoyable option!
Author & Blogger Peter H Bloecker (Retired)
Updated Thu 8 May 2025
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